OMG, the Mexican riveria...excuse me while I am jealous awhile! LOL
Please make yourself at home, read the stickies at the top of this forum.
alcoholism and substance abuse is progressive, it only goes one way...worse,
unless he seeks abstinence and recovery which he has told you he has no interest in.
You are in a beautiful area, the beaches, good food, wonderful climate..just lovely.
I think you deserve someone who can celebrate all this with you and add to your pleasure and enjoyment of life.
That is not going to happen with an addict.
Everyone of us comes here hoping against hope that our addict is different, that if we only knew the right thing to do, we could save them, our relationship and all would be well.
I have never once seen that happen as long as they continue to use their substances, whatever they are.