Sorry to hear that it has not been a good week, but he is where he needs to be concentrating on learning the skills he needs to get and maintain sobriety. You just concentrate on you.....(((babyblue))).
To paraphrase a bit from one of Freedom's best....you turn those grouchypants back into happypants!!! And that's a good thing! (Channeling my inner Martha Stewart...). I like that letter burning idea...I've never tried that.