When I saw my daughter the other day she started telling me some of the things she did to get drugs..the house mother saw the look on my face and said"I don't think your mom is ready to hear all that.She may never be."I'm sure that's how you felt hearing all that stuff from your ex..compounded by the fact it's his FATHER (dear Lord!) Next time she starts in I'm going to tell her I don't need her taking a dump in my brain like that, thank you very much.Takes too long to get the stank out.