Originally Posted by
naive 
to not even accept nor reject a clear ultimatum....
so, a "no" by default! ha ha. it's like the epitome of emotional laziness.
Emotional Laziness!!! I love it. To me, the emotional laziness is as troubling, or even more troubling, than the drinking. I was talking to a 10+ year AA'er and he told me that the drinking is really the symptom of an underlying emotional problem- at first I didn't really understand what he was saying. Now, I do! I am so thankful for that.
Thanks, naive, for your support!
craven