I'm proud of you for finding a meeting and I'm proud of you for saying no to him. There is no scenario in which him going to a meeting with you is appropriate, and you are correct he wanted to be there to manipulate the situation.
Stay strong.
Cyranoak
Originally Posted by
sassyea 
Sorry he said he wanted to be "nice" and offer to go w/ me. So he can manipulate this situation also? No way!! Keep your buns at home!!!!