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Kindeyes But I think he may be considering that his only option since he has no job and that may be the discussion he is having in rehab with his counselors. I am hopeful that they are exploring other options with him. We want to be supportive of his recovery but do not want to enable him.
How about giving a call to one of the counselors and telling them how you feel instead of driving yourself crazy with what they 'might' be discussing?
People don't necessarily automatically know what my boundaries are. I can clearly state them.