Yuck. I am sorry this has happened. It is difficult not to try to figure out what is truly going on with him. What words to believe. How to interpret his behavior and reconcile that with how he says he feels. I have literally made myself sick, and crazy, trying to figure out what is going on. My advice is to trust your instincts. If you feel you cannot believe him, heed that feeling. If you feel panic whenever you talk to him, trust that your body is telling you "danger."