When they slip - our beloved children- we sometimes stumble a bit ourselves in our own recovery. I think you did well Rita and your recovery is shining.you told her what you thought and didn't sugar coat anything. She knows that you love her but you won't take a front row seat to her drama.
I hope and pray she has recovery friends who will take her hand and brush the brambles off her behind and help her get right back on her path.
Mom hugs