Start taking care of youself and that would include not missing any more work. The consequences of her addiction do not constitute an emergency on your part. She needs to deal with it. Definately go to the next meeting you can. I know I couldn't do it alone. I had the same feelings about the people she grew up with..I couldn't handle being around their "normal" kids. You can move past those kinds of things when you find some peace and recovery for yourself.They say to work the program you wish they would.Good advice.