Boy, am I glad that I found this thread. Everything that has been posted is Soooooo true.....especially in my case. I am in therapy dealing with all my anger and resentment with living with my alcoholic husband of forty years. But in my case I believe my AH is playing dirty pool. As a result of a massive stroke that I suffered in DEC 2009 I, also, suffer from short term memory recall. I can not trust a thing my AH tells me, because I don't always remember the exact facts as they actually are. My AH will do and say anything to justify his actions, or lack of action, and his words to me. Thank God for my two adult children that can help me with remembering the facts.
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God loves me where I'm at, but He loves me too much to leave me there.