Please leave as fast as you can or have her removed if it is your home.
Do you need to be in the house.
Could you stay with friends or family?
Do you have a video recorder? Could you film her when she is drunk and ranting to gather evidence. Could you take a photo of the battered door to keep as evidence, noting times and dates?
SHE CANNOT LIE IF YOU HAVE EVIDENCE OF HER ACTIONS.
What an earth do her family and friends say when they have to waste time on the phone conversing with a drunken slob? Why are none of them stating that if she is smashed she does not ring them. If she does then they will terminate the phonecall.
Can you confide in anyone, who may give her a straight talking to when she is sober? Her parents, siblings or joint friends? That might just stun her into changing her nasty attitude.
She is bullying you and you do not deserve to be her slave during the day and her punchbag on an evening. You also deserve a peaceful nights sleep without her waking you and ranting. Could you check into a hotel for a night, perhaps without telling her when she is drunk and leaving her on her own.
I would certainly not be taking her breakfast in bed. Get her to get her hungover, ungrateful backside out of bed and make it herself. If you are running around after her all day, she's not going to realise that her behaviour is a problem.
Why are you staying?
Please, please come back and keep us informed that you are safe.
Take lots of care
Sasha
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