Thanks everyone for listening. I wanted to report back and let everyone know that it has been a rough couple of days. AH did not appreciate me busting him and calling him out. Therefore, he figured he might as well get trashed, which is how he reamined the entire weekend.
He decided Sunday that he needs to go to Rehab as he can't battle this on his own anymore. He is in the process of finding out where the best place would be to go and has a call into a couple of places. I'm working on finding childcare coverage while he is gone and honestly just looking for some relief.