ok, i'm with the program now, cambi. thanks for the clarification.
i guess what makes me uncomfortable with this situation is that you moved out and now he is in your new place with you. you state if he blows positive in the breathalyzer, he's out.
i think it is highly likely he will drink, as they seem to drink no matter the consequences, and then you're going to find yourself with a situation on your hands. he might get angry, even refusing to go.
what if he blows positive? i don't see how you can legally make him leave.
also, i can't see the temporary informal supervised visitation working out either, if he ends up blowing positive and you throw him out. things could get ugly really fast, in my opinion.
perhaps reconsider moving forward with the courts for a temporary order. it doesn't seem like the thing to economize on. i understand your lawyer says its ok, as he is cooperating, but your lawyer might not have first hand experience with alcoholics.
from what i've witnesses here in the last two years, i think the chances of everything working out nicely without legal backing is slim to nothing.
naive