Why do you take it? Is there anyone you can talk to about the person at work or are they your boss? You don't have to take harassment or bullying at work, really do look into reporting the behaviour. If you don't stand up for yourself it won't stop.
You also don't have to sit with your AH all evening whilst he is rude to you. If he is rude to you get up and leave the room, go in another room and do something, take a portable tv into your bedroom or spare room, go and see a friend, go for a walk, anything to not be around him when he is behaving badly towards you.
You don't have to take it, the more you do, the worse you will feel about yourself. I know I did.