Hey Abs! Good to see you. I agree with lightseeker. Thank you for having the courage to share. I too am reflecting on the lost time because I was so wrapped up in saving my marriage.
Your children are being affected a whole lot more than you might be admitting to yourself. I know that that was the case in my situation. I can't get that time back - I wish that someone had had an intervention on me at the time and that I had listened.
I 100% agree....
If you don't think it's healthy for the kids to be with their dad can you just revert back to your normal cs arrangement? I'm all for kids having healthy relationships with their parents. Just hope your situation with the kids is healthy.
How are things going otherwise? It's been a while! Glad you're in a place where you don't have to respond to xabf's letter.