I am so sorry for what you are going through, but please understand that you do not have to accept or tolerate that kind of behavior. Especially being that he is living with you. I pray you find the strength to do what is necessary to get your peace and serenity back. I doubt it will be with him. My AH has the same issue and after 5 years of dealing with it...and it only getting worse, I am legally separating myself from him. We have been together for 19 years and have a lot to lose - and two beautiful children together. My kids should not have to live with this crap, nor should I. Nor should you or anyone else in a similar situation. At some point people have to face the consequences of their actions. And this drug is a horror.
My advice to anyone in this situation is don't stay as long as I have!!! Get out as early as possible! It only gets worse...