Hi erem! I hope it looks better in the morning...things often do. I'm also glad nothing happened to your husband. Generally he sounds like a pretty good guy....those are kind of hard. To come by so maybe cut him a little slack? Tomorrow maybe talk to him about how much this upset you and why...he probably didn't really get it....normal drinkers don't really understand after all.
whatever you do...don't drink over it...its not worth it.