Hi Honey Girl...
The sweatlodge is many things...it depends a lot on the person who is leading the sweat and which tribe they follow.
I have learned mostly from my friend Servondo's lodge, he is commanche but follows the ways of Orvil Looking Horse and the Lakota People of South Dakota and the green grass reservation.
I have also sweated with numerous other's who have their own way's, such as a friend who has a Bear Lodge that is very powerful and very, very hot.
I get emotional just thinking about my experiences within the lodge.
When my heart is in the wrong place, I suffer greatly in the lodge and find myself digging deep in to the mother earth for some comfort from her cool, dampness. I feel I will die, but come out reborn.
-Nomaste'
I found this little excerpt and it is pretty good....