Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
Doesn't matter if he's doing great or awful....it still hurts. ((()))
I would like to respectfully disagree, it's
much better if
they are doing awful.
When the fit hit the shan with my marriage, the axw's clan circled the wagons to protect ALL of their diseases, I was definitely the odd man out.
The one thing that bothered me was that I'd known my FIL for 13 years and I liked him. I was exiled and banished from the kingdom, and I did miss him and cared what he thought about me.
Then I learned here, from
CatsPajamas, "What other people think of me is none of my business". When I was able to internalize that concept, I was able to detach from a lot of STUFF. It really helped, still does.
Hang in there.
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote