Yes, she is in early recovery. But the time has come to be an adult. Actions have consequences. I am not going to give until I am depleted. My friends treat me well, my husband treats me well, and I should not expect any less of her.
Her needs are being met, she is in a supportive environment , and I think its high time she learn that we (her father and I) are people too. We have feelings, needs, wants ourselves and we aren't going to subject ourselves to her continued self centerednesss and take take take mentality.
I love her, we are financially supporting her, but time for her to start thinking of others.