Keepinon, You sound like your getting healthier. If you didn't think the visit would be healthy for you, it's better that you didn't go. However, your daughter is still in treatment, and in very early recovery from a serious addiction. Her behavior isn't going to change as fast as you would like it to. Give the girl a chance to change. One thing at a time, and right now she is doing her best. When you first come off of those drugs you can't do the simplest little things. It's an effort to get up and function. This will all change in time. I hope things get better between you and your daughter.