He was on parole for assault and battery. He basically came close to killing someone when he punched them while drunk. I am just very hurt and confused right now and feel I have let him down or should have been stronger. I. Guess that is why I am here.....for support and to be reminded of what I know to be the truth. Thank you all so much. I no I am in the right place and I am going to stay and workk through the pain and confusion so I can make it to the other side stronger than ever.