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Old 10-19-2010, 10:07 PM
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Jadmack25
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I spent nearly 18 years trying to "help" my RABF to sober up and stay sober,. Ha Ha.

Probably went thru 200 or more times when he went thru detox at home, only for him to get back on the drink later on.

I finally got tired of the same old cr*p, and left him to do whatever, keeping my hands out of it completely, even going No Contact for over a month.

He gave up trying to contact me, went for help for himself and has been responsible for his sobriety since then.

He is proud of himself, and I am proud of him for not buckling under some severe pressure. He has his dignity intact, because I left him to manage his own life and business.....at long last.

Moral support and love yes, being a prop...no.
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