Originally Posted by
Freedom1990 
What are you getting out of being with people like that?
You do realize that everyone getting high at a Mary Kay party isn't normal, right?
I wouldn't compromise my integrity by spending a single moment in a situation like that.
I think there are issues much deeper than this particular guy.
I should have left the party. I fell into the codependency trap of worrying about what other people would think of me if I left, instead of taking care of myself. Hence the codie relapse.
I have now talked to three of the people at the party, including the guy, and have expressed my dissatisfaction with the situation and made it clear to them all what my boundaries are.