Welcome to the SR family!
I agree with letting your lawyer know that you want supervised visitation. Let your attorney decide a plan of action.
Please make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed. We are here to support you.
A book that helped me understand alcoholism is "Under the Influence". You can read excerpts from the book on one of our forum links. Here is a link:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...influence.html