I think about my ex abf boyfriend, who has been sober for almost 9 months, every day. He doesn't drink, he goes to meetings, but it ends there.
I can only take care of myself, but every day I remember that leaving him and taking care of myself and my children was an act of love...for me, for him, for my children...for everyone involved.
Leaving your AH and taking care of yourself and your daughter IS an act of love. And when you take this step, wonderful things can happen. One day at a time.