Originally Posted by
SSIL75 
I know everyone knows someone who knows someone who had things like this work out but man. Not married? No kids and you find yourself having to drug test your partner for heroin? I'm thinking this is a 'run, don't walk' kind of situation. And some counseling for you, too to figure out how you got here.
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I agree with you to some extent, but I think that op should at least try to get her help before running away. If she is not ready, then the op will hopefully know when to give up. Abandoning her right now could make things worse for her, which could end in an overdose.
I had a girlfriend who made me look at my habits a few years back. I quit for a little while, learned a little about sobriety, and realized how destructive my problems were. I was not ready to call it quits, but I gained a lot of insight and scrutinized my behavior in the time since then. I probably would not be ready to attempt sobriety if those events did not occur.