thank you all so much for your thoughts and support! I agree about the moving to fast part and that has never sat well with me. My instincts told me from the beginning that something wasnt right.
I am a teacher and I dont make that much money, but i have my own home, a nice car and a few extra dollars in the bank. He has absolutely nothing, and I always wondered if he just saw me as an opportunity.
I know he is trying to turn the blame on me and he has actually contacted me this week saying things like he wants to try and make things work bw us but he just doesnt think that i will ever trust him.
I told him that I didnt trust him because HE LIED and that I would never take the blame for this.
I know this is for the best and that he is no good for me, but I think I am just feeling rejected because he dumped me when I should have been dumping him!
Again, thanks to all you wonderful people.