Originally Posted by
pinkflamingo 
I'm thinking about packing him a bag. Making him go to his mom's for a while. That would be rougher for him over there. She's been through this before with family. She didn't want to bail him out. if it wasn't for the kids he'd still be in jail.
I agree with you. THEY bailed him out, THEY should keep him.
There really is nothing in Al-Anon to be scared of. They won't hurt you or make you do anything, they won't even make you speak if you don't want to.
Hang tough girl, Let Go of someone else's problems.