My boundary question is outside of the anger one. I was hoping others would share how they came about how they overcame the boundary issue. As far as the anger, bitterness, resentment issue I keep getting into verbal arguments, and want to interfere, question, condemn, that sort of thing when I know its useless...and I'm moving on, so what's the point. I need to find some ways to stop this behavior from myself.
Of course its not ok to have an active addict around...unfortunately, I'm in a spot where I pay the mortgage and can't afford to get a place of my own otherwise I would have done that already. AH refuses to leave, so unless I have a reason to file a restraining order I'm screwed. My lawyer is going to ask for an expedited order to get him out of the house once everthing gets going with the legal separation. I AM moving forward in trying to remove myself and my kids from this ridiculous situation. So no, I don't think its okay in the least.