i may well do that but no rush as yet know he wont do anything with my things and he does still have my moby number would change it but i like the number as its only one ive ever remembered but ill go with someone there and send them in with a list to get it will prob go end of nov im kinda been guided atm if that dont sound too nutty and i felt i was been warned not to go tomorrow that was dangerous to go so i heeded this i always listen to my guardians and there telling me november will be safe for me to go my ex hubby has offered to drive me so will be fine xxx