AH never told me he might go play cards or anything, the plan was to talk to our son tonight. Could AH make things worse for me if I do this, talk to son without him?
On another note, yesterday he emailed me to tell me he would give me x amount of money each month towards the bills while we separated, a certain amount from two paychecks a month. I agreed, then after thinking about it I emailed him to say I agree to x amount of money from each paycheck, he didn't like that since some months he gets more than one, he gets paid every two weeks. This doesn't happen that often, but I think I need to get a lawyer involved.
Looking back on our interactions, he does try to control every decision and is not nice about it if I don't want to do what he says. He doesn't like me having a backbone....