He is 13, 8th grade, he has a great relationship with me, good with his dad, husband is playing cards with other fathers of boys in his class, I am afraid he may say something to them, if he hasn't already, and my son will find out from someone at school. My husband is trying to bully me again I fear, he always wants to control things. My AH will be hungover in the morning too. The fact that we agreed and he is not being responsible infuriates me, typical of self centered alcoholic isn't it?