I was in a really foul mood last night and it came out in my post and for that I apologize.
It was inappropriate for me to allow my emotions to affect my input on this subject. I had a bad evening and posted here just after an argument, and it was not right.
I am really confused when it comes to dealing with emotions, which is why I struggle with relationships even when I'm not drinking. My emotions are all over the map and seem to have a mind of their own at times.
I will refrain from posting during these difficult times, for my postings while upset do not really portray how I feel when calm and peaceful.
So it's true, I feel we're all codependent in relationships to some extent, and learning how to deal with emotional issues is at the heart of recovery, and I still have tons to learn.
Thank you for letting me be part of your group, and please disregard my comments made in while in a negative frame of mind.