I'm not mad coyote, I'm disgusted.
Very different emotions.
But as far as waiting for someone else to change, what about when that someone else is saying they're working on changing and you have 20 or 30 years of marriage together? I mean, it's not an easy thing to put all that by the wayside. I'm very grateful that I got out as early as I did, believe me.
Did I even spell dookey right? lol