Yeah thats what Ive been thinking. If he can be this outright selfish and jump into something with someone in a similar situation, thinking it might help him, then hes obviously not thinking clearly like he should be and he wont ever get better. Hes living a lie, in that stupid group house, thinking everything will straighten itself out and he wont ever have to deal with reality.
And now Im the one left who has to file for child support. I have to file for custody and take classes and do a mediation with him and try to settle without having to go in front of a judge, because there is no way in hell im letting him take my kid out himself, let alone with another addict.
I guess Im just feeling self pity today. Poor me, I have to go through all of this mess and he seems like hes enjoying his life.