I'm as sick as he is
So I had a fight with AH after he said some nasty things to me and flew into an absolute rage. Then i realized, what the hell am I doing? Why does ANYTHING this man says or does affect me? He's A DRUNK! I'm as sick as he is if i let his perception of me or the world affect me in any way.
This may sound elementary to you, but to me it's huge.
Of course, this means I have to discount about anything he says or does, which is tricky because he can appear sane much of the time.
Whatevah. Back to my life I go.