thats what i figured, theres no way this could be about me or anything ive done, just another way for him to place blame on anyone but himself. if it makes him feel better to cast me aside and be with someone else, then there isnt anything i can do but realize hes making more mistakes and isnt going to get better. i may not be perfect, or close to it, but im a good person and girlfriend, and i did more for him than i did for myself. although i know thats codependency, i did it out of love, and if he can turn around and treat the mother of his child like this, then he didnt deserve my love and doesnt anymore. and im sure it wont last with this new girl, and when its over, he will be back at my door because i was the only person who supported him.