This subject is a reoccurring one, and I am always baffled by the discussion that ensues. I got sober with AA and I like to think stay sober because of the folks and the thoughts that I hear in AA.
That being said, it makes me sad that someone who doesn't find what I found, or finds some help in AA and strength in other places feels "marginalized" as Oak stated. I hope I have never made someone who has been in a meeting feel that they are less than, because they don't agree with everything or maybe anything that AA offers as a means of getting and staying sober.
I have always felt that AA offers a solution that is put forth by others who found this path worked for them, but tolerance and understanding is a pillar of the fellowship that I think I belong to.
Posts like this serve to remind me that I need to be vigilant and tireless in practicing the acceptance of other's point of view.