Smash it, box it, bury it, and mark the "grave" with Here lies my contact with **, may it rest in pieces.
If you want to talk to him you can go to the memorial and talk to it instead of ruining your serenity with talking to him.
I'm a year and one week out from contact with XABF, but I think I can muster another year. I'm motivated to do it at the very least and that means a lot.
Alice