I like this thread. I have gone no contact with XAH finally for good in the last 30 days. I don't listen to my negative mind chatter...(itty-bitty-******-committee)...I purposefully did not take something my boss said personally...knowing she is a pot smoker and is whacko...I want to start exercising and want to lose 20 lbs. I have a plan. I sold a house and was proud of taking that action even though I lost $. The house was in the neighborhood of the X. I like this thread! Damn we're good.