So what is he waiting for.....the Sobriety Wizard to zap him, someone to pick him up and deliver him to the magic place where addictions are removed painlessly?
It isn't going to happen.
He can sit there, quacking excuses forever, and he still will be a lying, manipulative, alcoholic, cheating jerk.
Stay in touch here and gain strength and purpose from the support and help you get.
Let him quack and ignore it all, block him, cut him off.....he does not exist for you.