Once again - steve - as I have said before to you -
this is said with love, understanding and healthy compassion from someone who has walked a similiar path - ok - it is not meant to be harsh or uncaring ~
appears she is not willing to go to any lengths to get help/walk away for/from her addiction - (drugs)
appears you are not willing to go to any lengths to get help/walk away for/from your addiction (her)
You both are making progress - just haven't made it there yet - as long as you both keep trying there is always a chance ! I have to keep on keeping on too!!!!
Keep on taking good care of you ~ Don't give up before the miracles happen in YOU - You deserve them!
HUGS,
Rita