I regret not trusting my gut. I regret closing my eyes instead of looking around at the obvious.
I too try to not let regret seep in. I wouldn't have 2 awesome kids without xah. My biggest regret is not getting out sooner. I could have, should have left years ago. But I'm not a quitter, right?
I kept trying and trying and trying. All the while he got worse and worse. I followed suit right behind him.