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Old 09-25-2010, 09:56 PM
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theuncertainty
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Hi, Lindsey. Vent away.

Just a question that came to mind as I read your post. Kind of a rhetorical question and you don't have to answer. If you don't trust him around your kids, why would you stay with him even for a short time to finish school? Especially if you were concerned enough to call CPS regarding a couple times he had his son?

Originally Posted by LS2 View Post
Oh how I wish I could just know the right thing to do..
Even not including information about your children, I kind of get the feeling you know what the right thing is to do. Only maybe you're not quite to the point where you're ready to act on it. Even with the domestic violence issues in my marriage, it took me a long time to decide to leave STBXAH. It took me a while to realize that I was already parenting and taking care of the household expenses on my own. It's a big step, working out the reasons to leave or stay.
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