Hey TJ, so about that guy if you feel too bad to tell him the truth, cause you don't want to hurt his feelings. Tell him you being in recovery really isn't conducive to starting new relationships. That right now your priority is getting yourself better. Tell him, maybe in the future, but right now you just can't risk your sobriety.
Congrats on Day 6 TJ, and Lyddie 81 days is wonderful.