The poster asked for our opinion. I gave him mine. If you feel that everyone who asks whether they have a drinking problem should get the answer "yes", then fine. Give it to them. I will stick to my opinion, it sounds like a power struggle in a normal relationship, and he gets a little less "yes dear", when he has a couple of drinks. If it is causing problems in he relationship maybe he should quit drinking. But IN MY OPINION, he isn't a problem drinker with what he wrote.