I hope you don't mind me asking this, but how can you and your husband be responsible parents for your two year old if you are both consuming massive amounts of alcohol every night?
if i remember correctly (it's been a while my daughter is 30 now)...2 year olds are very active and require LOTS of watching and attention, help with feeding, day and night...and tend to get ill in the middle of the night sometimes (mine was prone to high fevers and ear infections which would require an off hours trip to the pediatrician)....do you have someone to help take care of her/him?