trust me man, your wee wee won't fall off if you go a while without sex. i know from experience. i had to become willing to do whatever it takes it stay clean, and for me that meant following suggestions and putting my recovery first, above everything else in life. while learning this new way of life, i found that the raw, casual sex i was accustomed to didn't feel right or very spiritual. and i also learned that i was too freaking sick to have a healthy relationship, so any woman desiring a relationship with me was bound to be even sicker than i am. Now that's sick! put those things together and i just stayed away from it all for a while.