Originally Posted by
Chino 
steve, my RAD is not friends any more with even one of her enablers. Didn't matter how good their intentions were. She's friends only with the people who had the courage to tell her no. She respects them, not the others.
This may be the simplist, but most powerful thing to hit me today.
the hardest part is not trustung inthe outcome. what will happen? will she hate me for it? will she later love me for it?